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Spending quality time with your partner it’s really funny to see
how busy we have
become so busy that we forget about the good old days when spending quality time with your partner very important. it’s is quite annoying that people fight so hard to be with each other but lose interest when it comes to keep each other in
their life. You might debate how much you spend time with each other.
become so busy that we forget about the good old days when spending quality time with your partner very important. it’s is quite annoying that people fight so hard to be with each other but lose interest when it comes to keep each other in
their life. You might debate how much you spend time with each other.
But i just have one question for you, do you think you are spending time with your partner when you watch television program together? If your answer is yes then you are missing it out, Because that is not spending quality time with
your partner as far as i am concerned because your Attention is divided between the television and your partner, I guess you are getting the gist now? and you probably asking how you can spend time with your partner if being cozy on the
couch and watching television isn’t quality time then what is?
Now that is where I come in to help. According to Gary Chapman the
author of five love
languages “A central aspect of quality time is having great time with each other, I don’t mean proximity… Togetherness, has to do with focused attention” and not
you and your partner been in the same room talking while one of you is busy reading a book/magazine. Below are the ways to get started with your quality time.
languages “A central aspect of quality time is having great time with each other, I don’t mean proximity… Togetherness, has to do with focused attention” and not
you and your partner been in the same room talking while one of you is busy reading a book/magazine. Below are the ways to get started with your quality time.
- Setting the mood
- Patience
Before I go any further note that to spend quality time with your partner or anybody at all involves patience and sacrifice and this lead to a
wonderful time together. Nowadays we are all in a hurry and extremely
impatience. Spending time with your partner doesn’t have to be expensive. For example you can off the television and focus on one thing, i.e.
your partner without over picking your phone.
Tips for spending quality time with your partner.
– Maintain eye contact when your partner is
talking,
it helps to keep your mind from wandering.
-Listen and don’t be busy doing other things at
the same time {like reading watching TV}
Don’t interrupt; i know how difficult it to not
interrupt. Please allow your partner to finish
before you start talking
-Don’t give advice unless you are asked
-Don’t judge your partner immediately or stop
him/her half way to correct them. That’s very
bad especially when you stop your partner just to correct his/her English.
The same thing also applies if you are going on a date with your partner. Don’t choose a noisy place. Quality time is all about having fun together. I know from experience how difficult it is for a human being to sit at one place and concentrate on one thing but this is a sacrifice you must be willing to do in other to have a
Fine relationship. Be patient with your partner, nobody is perfect. If
you can take your time to sit down with your partner and talk intimately then you are
really committed to the relationship.
DON’T FORGET THAT NOTHING DESTROYS A
RELATIONSHIP FASTER THAN “LACK OF
COMMUNICATION”
RELATIONSHIP FASTER THAN “LACK OF
COMMUNICATION”
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